Luna's Realm: Cards of Sanity

Motherhood has always been know to be pretty darn crazy. So I was feeling pretty lucky that "the baby won his mother" some sanity, motivational cards from Luna's Realm when things get rough. Ok, to be fair, I might have won myself this deck considering I was the one who thought of the 3 words although the baby might arguably inspired these words. 

The deck from Luna's Realm had this tarots card vibes which I digged. In terms of the quality, I would have prefered them to be less flimpsy, but oh wells. Still nothing could beat the quote Luna's Realm wrote for us <3 Please check them out!

Fan of Dyson

If you know me personally, you would know that Dyson is one of the brands I have been eyeing for a very...very long time. I am not ashamed to admit that I am a sucker for beautiful, sleek designs and I have been somewhat obsessed with the fans and hair tools of Dyson. Deep down, I have to admit, Dyson's products are very expensive.

To be honest, I only became a convert during one of my casual walks around Metro. (Yes, I am super aunty now. Before covid, I would loiter around malls to pass time and wait for my appointment to see baby.) It was there we met this super awesome salesman, who sold Dyson to me. He was honest enough to tell me that given my needs, I probably should go for the cheapest Tower fan (which still cost $400 plus). LOL!

We eventually decided to be proud owners of a Dyson Tower Fan:

1. It was on sales and we got it around the low 400s.
2. My aircon broke down and I really needed another fan. I couldn't survive the heat anymore. 
3. We decided that the filter function was worth the additional $200 odd dollars
4. We thought this was a baby-safe fan. Initially, we only wanted to buy it when baby arrives. But you know what, Mummy can use it first la!
5. It is very easy to assemble and clean. 

After using Dyson fan for a while, I notice that the wind that comes from the fan is diffused, unlike the normal fan we are used to. I find the remote not very sensitive and can only be used at close proximity. I have to admit that the fan isn't life-changing, but I enjoy having it around cos it is truly aesthetically pleasing :P 

Nursing Bra: Yay or Nay

Generally, the nursing bra is used when you are breastfeeding the baby so that you can easily access your boobs during the process. Call me kiasu, but I actually got mine way ahead and I am doubling them up as maternity bras. And I am happy to update this might be one of the best decisions I have made. :D

Firstly, maternity bras are so comfortable. For me, the twins have grown and my old bras just can't do their job anymore. For now, I am going a cup bigger while maintaining the ribs circumference. I think my ribs size might have expanded a bit but I sort of want to restrict its expansion, haha. You might want to go a size bigger if you prefer something less snug. Secondly, I love that it provides really good support for my bigger boobs (which now I realise bigger isn't exactly better). Lastly, they have really nice designs (not granny-like at all).

I have to be honest, my body shape is really changing quite a bit. In fact, I would think that there is not even much shape to speak of. With Covid and all, I feel like I am just lounging around at home and letting loose in a bad way. My hair is messy, I dress like crap and my body is lumpy. The silver lining, my skin is still great though (lol).

But pregnancy really shouldn't be this way. That's why I always feel excited...and a boost of confidence when I find nice, flattering maternity/ nursing outfits/ gears. So I thought I will share with you guys - Cake Maternity. I gotten some nursing bras and a gorgeous maternity dress, but today I will focus on the nursing bras. 

1. Waffles Nursing Bra (US$65)

This is one of the prettiest nursing bras I have seen in the market. So far, all the bras I am using is the drop-cup (i.e. there is a clasp to unhook each side which I find it very convenient). On the inner side of the bra, there is even polka-dots designs. 5 stars for the crazy amount of details. For special occassions, this is definitely my top choice although nobody really sees it. Haha,  I wore it when I visited my gynae not like she can tell. :P

I didn't use to think like this. But now, I think there are some things that nobody sees and nobody else really bothers. But you know it matters and that it feels good when you treat yourself right or when you give yourself a well-deserved pampering treat. And one of these thrills is definitely the nursing bras.

2. Yoga Nursing Bra (US$53)

Although I am not really working out during this period, I am planning to resume my runs to keep my body fit again once I concieve. So, I have been looking out for nursing bras that allows an active lifestyle. Personally, I love the sporty design of this bra (check out the hole in the back) and the Cake emblems at the bottom (most of day-to-day underwears usually have such designs as well) so this is a much welcomed familar design. 

Fabric-wise, Cake Maternity generally is a little thinner at the front so you can actually spot the nipple bump. This was quite worrying at first. However, when you put on your outer clothes, it won't be visible at all. My thoughts is that most people (at least me) don't take photos in underwear so I am not really too bothered by this now. 

3. Navy Stripes Nursing Bra (MYR109)

For Mummies who are on a tighter budget, you might want to consider 9 Months Maternity. In terms of the fabric, there is more sponge at the front. The variety is a bit more limited and the bras are all of the drop-cup design. But if you want something simple, you would be able to find what you need here. Rest assured these bras are very comfortable. If you want to find out more about my review on their other products, read here!

I know some Mums actually choose to purchase from taobao etc. for cheap nursing bras cos they deemed these as one-time uses. Honestly, I feel that they double up pretty well as a staple and if you buy them during the sales period you can get them around the same price as your day-to-day bra. So, I think it is still alright to invest on "inner beauty". Plus for my readers only, quote "ChaaYen" and you can get 15% off for the regular items at 9 Months Maternity!